Oct 8, 2023

Backyard DIY self catered wedding - documentary wedding photography - Wairarapa, New Zealand

bride serving herself DIY wedding buffet, New Zealand documentary wedding photography, Lucalia Photography

Elise and TJ are probably the most hard working couple I've ever had the pleasure of documenting. They DIY'ed, planned and delivered their dream backyard wedding for 50 people entirely themselves. Both partners were invested in the planning, catering and decorating. And it was something truely unique to them. Enjoy!

The wedding venue

Elise said "we wanted to have the wedding in a familiar environment" which is why they chose to be married in the beautiful garden of Elise's aunty.

Wedding ceremony

Faith is an important part of their lives which was reflected in the spiritual ceremony by former minister Graham Small. They chose to ditch the tradition of having bridesmaids and groomsmen. Instead saving key roles during their ceremony for family. Like Elise being walked down the aisle by her son.

Kids or no kids?

Forming a blended family with Elise's three children, kids are important to them. There were loads at the wedding which made for an entertaining, relaxed and fun day. Children make documentary wedding photography so entertaining. The kids especially loved the three different flavours of milkshake and home made cookies served after the ceremony!

Hire and DIY decorations

Elise and TJ arranged a mix of furniture from the house; bought items and pieces hired from Festival Hire on the lawn. Tables were joined together to form one long table under a tunnel of marquees. Their humour shone through with decorations featuring quotes from SpongeBob SquarePants and puns galore. Although their humour was apparently wearing thin late the night before when they were hand making the last of the tissue paper pom poms...

Wedding catering

TJ is a former chef and took command of catering. Huge bowls of salads were prepared the day (and night) before. You could see the nerves of the ceremony fade away when he picked up his knives. With fish caught with his dad and friends freshly prepared before being cooked on the BBQ.

This was such a lovely wedding to document. There was loads going on with people genuinely having such a fun time (all without alcohol).

I'm Sarah from Lucalia Photography and I provide outdoorsy couples who hate awkward poses with documentary wedding photography in the Wairarapa. If you like the look of Elise and TJ's wedding photos, please feel free to check out more documentary wedding photography on my website.